Dear Me,
Happy Birthday.
Today, I pause to honour the woman I’m becoming and the journey that is shaping me.
This past year has been filled with unexpected lessons, quiet victories, deep reflections, and meaningful growth. Turning a year older feels different—it feels like arriving at a more grounded, grateful version of myself.
A year ago, I was full of questions. I had just stepped into unfamiliar territory—starting a blog, searching for deeper meaning, and learning to balance my dreams with the everyday demands of family life. It wasn’t always easy.
There were days I felt overwhelmed, uncertain, and far from the vision I had for myself. Doubt crept in. But looking back now, I recognize how those quiet struggles were shaping me into someone stronger, more self-aware, and more at peace with my true self.
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learnt is that growth rarely looks like we expect. It’s unpredictable. It often feels like you’re taking two steps back for every one step forward. But even in the chaos, there is beauty. Every stumble, pause, and small win played a part in becoming who I am today.
I’ve realised that personal growth isn’t just about hitting big milestones or chasing success. It’s about the subtle shifts—the moments I choose to show up for myself. It’s found in vulnerability, learning to extend grace to myself, and trusting that I am enough, right here and now.
This year, I’ve learnt to honour the small victories:
- Finding the courage to share my voice
- Nurturing honest, heartfelt connections
- Being kind to myself on the hard days
These moments matter. They are the foundation of lasting growth. Real transformation happens not in giant leaps but in the quiet, consistent choices we make each day.
If you ever feel like you’re falling behind or questioning your path, please remember this: you’re not alone.
Growth isn’t linear. The journey twists and turns. It can feel slow, confusing, and even frustrating. But that doesn’t mean it’s not happening. Even the smallest, most uncertain steps are moving you forward. Your journey is unfolding in its own time, and that’s more than enough.
So today, I say thank you to myself:
Thank you for showing up, even when it was hard.
Thank you for embracing the mess and learning through the struggle.
Thank you for being patient with who I’m becoming.
And most of all, thank you for choosing to love yourself through it all.
As I step into this new year, I feel hopeful. Hopeful for the growth still ahead, the lessons waiting to unfold, and the opportunity to keep evolving into the woman I’m meant to be.
In this new year, I will continue to welcome my growth journey with open arms. I’ll remind myself that every day is a gift, and I don’t need to have it all figured out to keep moving forward.
If you’re reading this and walking through your journey, let me gently remind you:
It’s okay to be in the messy middle, not to hold it all together. Growth can be slow and unglamorous, but that doesn’t mean it’s not real.
Keep showing up. You’re becoming someone beautiful—even if you can’t fully see it yet.
With love,
Cheta
I’d love to hear your story in the comments. What lessons are unfolding in your life right now? What small shifts are guiding your growth?
Let’s keep evolving—together.
One honest, heartfelt moment at a time.
28 thoughts on “A Letter to Myself: My Growth Journey”
Many a time we don’t see the growth cos it didn’t come the way we imagined it but doesn’t mean it’s not there or it’s not happening. Very impactful! Thank you for sharing… between Happy Birthday, All the best.
Thank you for reading. Growth is not always loud, but it is happening!
Happy Birthday Cheta! Such powerful words…Growth isn’t looking like someone else. It is taking small simple steps everyday in the right direction..
You are an inspiration indeed!
Congratulations once again
Awwwwn, thank you, Ruth. I appreciate your thoughtful words; they mean a lot to me.
Happy Birthday Sis.
You are Amazing.
Truthfully growth isn’t linear, the journey twists and turns but the unfolding happens eventually.
Keep soaring!
Awww, thank you so much ma’am. I am delighted to have you here and thank you for the birthday wish.
Growth is never straight, we have to keep evolving.
Beautiful. The choices of words in your letter are encouraging.
Thankyou.
I am encouraged
Ready to embrace my growth in love and faith
Happy birthday 🎉
Thank you for these words.
At this point in my life I’m learning to understand that sometimes are out of your control, I’m also learning to apply Isaiah 60:22 daily.
On a lighter note..I haven’t gotten an earpiece yet but I try not to rush my mornings anymore and I listen to music whilst prepping for the day and I’ve been feeling more grounded during the day.
Such a long comment ryt🤭
I am happy to have you here. Yes, we don’t have to stress over things that are out of our control.
Listening to music, especially early in the morning while prepping for work, keeps us grounded for the hours ahead.
I am glad my message resonated with you. Remember to always extend grace to yourself as you embrace your journey.
Happy birthday darling, keep doing what you know best…..loving yourself is the least thing you can do for yourself and for we your lovers.
Enjoy God’s grace, live long and prosper.
We love you
Thank you for the birthday wishes. Yes, self-love is key!
You can’t give what you don’t have.
Hey!
Happy birthday, keep doing what you do….
Thank you, Dan. It’s so good to have you here.
Wow! Keep being you. Happy birthday beautiful woman with a heart of gold
Awww, I feel so honoured to have you here. Thank you for the encouragement.
Extending grace to myself🤯…this letter is beautiful and inspiring. Happy birthday darl 🎊
Thank you, Amaoge. This means alot to me.
Happy Birthday beautiful, strong ,blessed woman!
You’re becoming more daily!
Congratulations on your becoming and well done for taking those steps!
I’m rooting for you!
You’re a great blessing! Llnp sis
Awww, thank you for being here and for the birthday wishes. I appreciate your kind words @Joy
Happy Birthday, Sister Cheta! 🎉✨
Today is a celebration of “YOU” the incredible person you are and all the amazing things God has in store for your life. I hope this year brings you endless joy, new adventures, and all the success you deserve. Remember, you are stronger, braver, and more capable than you realise. Keep shining your light and never forget how much you’re loved and appreciated.
Here’s to another year of making unforgettable memories. Wishing you a birthday as fabulous as you are!
God richly bless you 🎂🎉🎉🎁🎈✨️✨️
This means a lot to me. Thank you for taking time to read my letter and your thoughtful words.
Your words are truly encouraging, and I appreciate the birthday wishes.
Thank you, KA.
Happy Birthday dear Cheta.
This is truly inspiration and I am really proud of this woman that has emerged because I know Cheta is her own first fan.
This letter is filled with insights and so uplifting.
Keep writing and keep inspiring.
Thank you, Teim. I appreciate your encouragement and kind words.
Very inspiring… happy birthday…. I celebrate you
Thank you so much
This is so insightful, deeply reflective and hopeful. Every word is an encouragement
Thank you for putting together this piece and welcome to the fourth floor where life truly begins
Happy birthday dear
Thank you, Boma. I appreciate your kind words.